You know that feeling when you come home from a date, and it just hits you—another night, another mismatch. It's so frustrating when he seems great on paper, but there's no spark, or he's attractive, but his values just don't align for what you dream of in a husband and father to your children. It's like, am I asking for too much wanting both chemistry and compatibility?
And then there's that pressure, right? Everyone around you is moving on, and you're left wondering if you should settle or keep holding out for the right one. It feels lonely and make you question if the guy you're dreaming of even exists.
He does exist.
And to meet him, you need
Aligned Attraction.
You're a woman of faith and so you're very ready to attract a relationship for marriage so you can start the next chapter and have a family of your own, but you don't want to settle. You want to find the guy who feels exciting to you and aligned to your religious values for the future you envision for yourself and your family. It's too important.
Because chemistry AND compatibility are both necessary for a happy, healthy marriage and that's NOT too much to ask for.
Does This Sound Like You?
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Deep down, you wonder if you’re asking for too much by wanting both chemistry and compatibility as a religious woman dating for marriage.
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You’re tired of being told to “just settle” or that attraction will grow after marriage.
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You’ve been in relationships where the chemistry was electric, but the foundation wasn’t there—and it left you heartbroken.
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Or maybe you’ve found compatibility or “good on paper”, but it felt boring uninspiring, and like something was missing.
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You’re navigating a dating world filled with societal expectations, opinions, and pressure, and you’re not sure how to make the right decisions for YOU, for the marriage and family you dream of.
Imagine This Instead…
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You’re in a relationship that feels like home—exciting, aligned with your values, and deeply fulfilling.
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You’ve broken free from unhealthy patterns of attachment or unworthiness and know exactly how to recognize the right person for you.
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You feel confident, worthy, and clear about what you want—and you’re no longer willing to settle for less because you believe what you want is possible to find!
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You attract a man who shares your values, aligns with your vision, and makes you feel truly seen and connected in all ways.
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You’re building a marriage and family rooted in values, love, joy, and mutual respect.
"Aligned Attraction" Course
Aligned Attraction is the ultimate solution for faith-based women seeking both chemistry and compatibility in relationships. This course goes beyond traditional dating advice by addressing the core issue of worthiness, empowering you to align your inner self with your outer reality. By focusing on spiritual alignment and actionable strategies, you'll only attract men who truly resonate with your values and vision. You'll feel hopeful, empowered, worthy and excited because you feel sure he's out there and waiting to meet you too! This isn't just another course—it's a transformative journey that changes your dating life, future marriage, and family for the better. Once you experience this shift, you'll naturally draw in the right people while letting go of those who don't align. It's time to stop settling and start attracting the love you deserve for the future you've been dreaming of.
Here’s What You’ll Learn Inside Aligned Attraction…
Module 1: Foundations of Chemistry + Compatibility
Learn what healthy chemistry and compatibility really mean—and why you need both for a thriving relationship.
Module 2: Breaking Unhealthy Patterns
Identify and release the patterns keeping you stuck in relationships that don’t serve you.
Module 3: Worthiness
Discover how to root yourself in self-acceptance and embody the energy of the love you desire.
Module 4: Attracting Healthy Chemistry
Cultivate and recognize healthy chemistry that aligns with your values.
Module 5: Building Compatibility
Assess compatibility early and align your dating choices with your faith and long-term vision.
Module 6: Integrating Chemistry + Compatibility
Bring everything together and step into the version of yourself ready to attract and sustain aligned love.
Hi, I’m Nechama Phillips! I’ve been where you are—navigating the heartbreak of relationships that didn’t align, questioning my worth, frustrated by meeting men who didn’t have the qualities, character or religious level (as an Orthodox Jew) I needed but had the charm, or we had the attraction and chemistry but I knew he couldn’t be what I needed for the marriage and family I envisioned. I wondered if I’d ever find the love I dreamed of because I doubted it was possible to have both chemistry and compatibility as a religious woman with “high expectations.” Did men like that even exist anymore? Turns out they do! Through my own journey of growth, faith, and self-discovery, I’ve learned how to break free from the unhealthy patterns keeping me stuck and finally step into a love that feels like home and has it all.
Today, I’m married to the most wonderful man, raising two beautiful daughters, and passionate about helping faith-based women like you find the aligned love you deserve.
Got Questions? I’ve Got Answers…
“What if I don’t have a lot of time to commit to the course?”
Each module is up to 15 minutes long maximum (90 min total course time!), with optional journaling and somatic audios to deepen your transformation. You can go at your own pace!
“Is this course only for religious women (of any faith)?”
While the course is designed with faith-based women in mind and for the nuanced challenges that can bring, the principles of chemistry, compatibility, and worthiness apply to anyone seeking aligned love.
“What if I’m not dating anyone right now?”
Perfect! This course will help you prepare for your future relationship by building clarity, confidence,
and self-worth now.
“What if I’ve already been married once and now I’m divorced?”
This course is for anyone ready to step into a new chapter of aligned love, no matter your past experiences.
You deserve to have a marriage with someone you’re deeply aligned with in all the ways that matter.
Aligned Attraction is your unlock to finding the relationship for marriage you’ve been dreaming of—one that balances chemistry and compatibility, honors your faith and values, and sets the foundation for a passionate, joyful, fulfilling, spiritually aligned marriage and family.